Round
Like a circle in a spiral
Like a wheel within a wheel
Never ending or beginning
On an ever-spinning reel
Like a snowball down a mountain
Or a carnival balloon
Like a carousel thats turning
Running rings around the moon
Like a clock whose hands are sweeping
Past the minutes of its face
And the world is like an apple
Whirling silently in space
Like the circles that you find
In the windmills of your mind

Like a tunnel that you follow
To a tunnel of its own
Down a hollow to a cavern
Where the sun has never shone
Like a door that keeps revolving
In a half-forgotten dream
Or the ripples from a pebble
Someone tosses in a stream
Like a clock whose hands are sweeping
Past the minutes of its face
And the world is like an apple
Whirling silently in space
Like the circles that you find
In the windmills of your mind

Keys that jingle in your pocket
Words that jangle in your head
Why did summer go so quickly
Was it something that you said
Lovers walk along a shore
And leave their footprints in the sand
Is the sound of distant drumming
Just the fingers of your hand
Pictures hanging in a hallway
And the fragment of a song
Half-remembered names and faces
But to whom do they belong
When you knew that it was over
You were suddenly aware
That the autumn leaves were turning
To the colour of her hair

Like a circle in a spiral
Like a wheel within a wheel
Never ending or beginning
On an ever-spinning reel
As the images unwind
Like the circles that you find
In the windmills of your mind

When I fall in love I become so sensitive and also so feeble creature

I magnify each single reaction, think for hours about what does she mean about this word or that comment maybe I can find out the answer of the ultimate question… Does She Love Me as I do???!

And I always come out with 10s of results’ scenarios… which make me more and more confused!!

In one hour my brain could take me to happiness because of a nice word I remembered that she said then to sadness because of another disappointing word she also said and after that to worries because of some reaction she totally ignored me in; which indicates that I’m not even one of her interests. That’s what I call Torture!!!

Thinking, thinking and thinking again in the same issue make me start feeling that my mind is burning because of abusing it… So it’s too hard to stay in that phase longer time.

While she maybe has no idea about the emotional roller coaster I’m going up and down in at all I become so mad at her… logically there is no reason for that… she didn’t make anything wrong!!, but that’s because I feel that she is the reason for all my current sufferings…

All of that drives me to start taking quick decisions… maybe I can find some end for that pain…

-  I WILL NEVER EVER TALK TO HER AGAIN UNTIL SHE STARTS TREATING ME BETTER!!

Then I realize that she didn’t make anything wrong to act that way. But the problem is still persisting, I still need a decision!!!

- Ok… let’s forget about the whole story… She is not mine! I should give it up

But that’s not comfortable solution at all for someone really in love… It may make me feel better for short time only… I need some sort of compromise between your brain and you heart!

- Hmm let’s forget the past… I will talk to her like nothing happened at all, and let’s wait for another sign; hopefully it’s the turn of the Good Sign to pop up!

What will come next?! Will it be the good sign as I hope or another disappointment??!

They say good things take time, but really great things happen in a blink of an eye. I thought the chances to meet somebody like you were a million to one. I can’t believe it. You’re one in a million. & all of this time i was looking for love, trying to make things work. They just wern’t good enough till i thought im through, said i was done, and stumbled into the arms of the one.

-Hannah Montana
[One in A Million.]

Whether or not your partner is right for you is one of the most important decisions of your life. Your entire future depends on these choices so how can you be sure you have the picked the right one

Well, the first thing you need to do is honestly ask yourself is why you love or are with your partner? You would be surprised at the answers you hear when you ask that same question to your friends.

The wrong answers to that question include the following:

- Because they love me.
- It’s better than being alone.
- I don’t want to hurt them.
- Because I am not sure I would find someone better.

These answers indicate a relationship built upon fear, insecurity and pity.

There are good matches out there, but if there are too many ifs, ands or buts then sooner or later the relationship will fail. Now that doesn’t mean you will break up, you could stay together for the rest of your lives and still fail as a couple.

So the question still remains, how do you choose the right partner?

Obviously you are going to choose a partner that you are physically attracted to. Apart from that aspect, there are a few important areas you should look at:

Communication Level
When you talk to them, are they on the same level as you? How long does it take them to answer your question? Do you get bored because they answer everything else under the sun rather than the question you asked or do you enjoy the tangents they take you on?

Do they speak very slowly compared to you? Do they understand you when you speak? Can you really talk to them about absolutely anything?

This may not seem important now but could you imagine living with someone for the next 50 - 70 years that can never answer a direct question, frustrates you to no end by their speed of communication and just doesn’t get it when are trying to explain something to them?

Common Interests
This is really a given. You have to have something in common with them to be able to be with them. Otherwise you will have nothing to talk about and nothing to do together. Yes, physically you may have great sex, but how far can that really take you? When two people have different interests, one person usually ends up sacrificing their desires for the other person… or you end up living comletely seperate lives.

Ambitions
Do you both want the same things in life or are they going to hold you back? Are they willing to let you have that career you have always wanted. Even if it means working long hours plus going to school at night?

Ethics Level
Do they have the same values as you? Would they feel totally OK doing something that you would have strong objections to or vice versa? Do you have the same beliefs on major issues such as religion, prejdudice, raising children etc? If not, is this something that will become a problem in the future?

Grooming and Cleanliness
Are they a slob and you the type of person that likes to keep the house immaculate? Do you take the same level of care of your appearance?

There is a lot of false information about relationships out there. One of the biggest lies is that opposites attract. That is really just a myth. Now a lot of the things I have listed above do come down to personal choice. It comes down to what you are and are not willing to accept. Just because you have fallen in love with someone does not mean that they are the right one for you. The number of people in physically abusive relationships should be testament enough to that. One thing is for sure. Do not settle for something less than you want because you are scared of hurting them, being alone or you feel this might be the best you can get. You never know what you might have missed that was right around the corner. Settling is always settling, no matter what way you look at it. By doing so, you will be left with a lifetime of “what ifs”.

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